How many of you out there set New Year’s goals, or
resolutions only to be wondering within the next few months exactly what
happened to them? Could it be that you have too many goals to focus on, and
your brain doesn’t know which one to really clamp into? Most folks are likely
to repeat this habit year on year. It’s not something you need to beat yourself
up on too much. We’ve all been there.
There is a potential solution out there
that I’ll cover below. Hopefully it shouldn’t be too hard to implement in your
own life. It may even mean you get some of those goals scratched off your list
by the end of the year. Then again, why does it need to be end of year anyway?
It’s time to focus. Actually the entire focus of this
article is actually that word. Focus. It also represents a nifty little acronym
that I live by, and has helped me get better results in my life since I implemented
it.
Follow
One
Course
Until
Successful
It certainly sounds simple enough, and in fact it is. The
majority of people will set goals and resolutions in such a way that means
their energy is completely scattered when they set out to achieve their goals. The
natural progression that occurs is that when you let yourself slip in one, then
it effectively becomes like a house of cards, and the rest crumble. Obviously I
am making huge generalisations here for the purpose of the article.
So a potential solution to all this is to simply focus your
energy on one major goal. This does not necessarily mean you limit yourself
entirely to just one endeavour, but it means the majority of your focus is on
achieving the one goal. As an example, let’s say that your goals list looks
like this;
ü Fit into wedding dress by (insert date)
ü
Learn a language
ü
Learn rocket science
ü
Save the animals
ü
Save the forests
While
all these goals are commendable, is it really reasonable to assume you will be
able to complete them all simultaneously? Unless you are some kind of savant
that can handle such things, then I suspect the answer is no.
The
trick in this case is to prioritise what your most important goal is to you
right now. If you have a wedding pending, then it is probably more likely you
are going to want to fit into that dress, rather than worry about whether the
computational fluid dynamics of an A4 rocket are calculated correctly (err,
whatever that means?). If that is the
case, then the primary focus should perhaps be to get fit/lose weight etc. If
that is your primary goal, you can also fit in other goals around it. An example
of this might be to incorporate an audio course on a language to listen to on
your workouts.
The
point being is that you will surprise yourself with your results when you
really focus. By making headway in one area, you will feel a greater sense of
motivation and achievement, which will help you achieve more by taking the same
approach.
Go
forth and F.O.C.U.S!
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